It’s my typical “friday” Thursday night for this semester. After a few visits from loves, I found myself stuck online chatting it up about a topic that honestly, I could speak about for DAYS. For the past 10 years, I’ve been in & out of seven, yes… 7 relationships. These relationships range from your typical innocent elementary crushes … middle school likes… to high school/college loves. To be honest, I once thought “yes, lucky 7. I’m set.” Little did I know, lucky 7 was just another learning experience for myself.
These relationships taught me lessons that I could have never learned from books or school. I learned that God should always be in the center of the relationship. Communication is the key to keep both of you sane. Distance is only in the state of mind. Trust will make your love grow. Jealousy is ugly. Taking risks are the first steps for any of this to start.
Now if I learned all this, why haven’t any of my past relationships lasted? Well I finally realized what’s been missing. All of the things that I learned kept me motivated to be the right person for THEM. This time around, I’m motivated to be MYSELF and see if that next guy can handle the person I really am. I don’t want to have to change for anyone and I would never want him to change for me. I know
Mr. Right exists. He’s gonna be my perfect opposite match.
101 things to do in 1,001 days, approx deadline: Nov 23, 2010
1. Go to Disneyland, at least 4 times. 3 more times. 2 more times. 1 more time!
2.Read another non-school book. Twilight Saga in the process.
3.Sink my toes in warm sand. Batangas was wonderful!
4. Graduate from Sac State.
5.Get a new car *cross fingers* new used car will do :) Romy, my Jetta.
6.Eat more sushi.
7.Go to an art museum.
8.Step all over crunchy leaves.
9. Go to Florida and breathe Disneyworld air.
10.Keep dancing & performing. ALL SUMMER.
11.Watch Transformers 2.
12.Watch Angels & Demons.
13.Buy more jackets.
14.Visit my Goddaughter in LA.
15.Visit my Goddaughter in American Canyon.
16. Visit my Goddaughter in Antioch.
17. Get my nails done, 33 more times.
18.Get a job! FINALLY! BB&B employed
19. Go to Winchester Mansion at night.
20. Get some pinkberry at SJ with Prophecy kids.
21. Have a reunion with the Cherrywood boys & princesses & other high school friends.
22. Take studio pictures with my 96 ladies.
23.Go to a different country. Philippines, you were good to me! Nanay, I love you.
24. Sleep at Chanel & Ina's house in the city.
25.Nuclear Explosion reunion *cross fingers x 500*
26. Watch all the Star Wars movies in one weekend.
27.Buy more girly shoes.
28. Let my hair grow out.
29. Go snowboarding.
30.Swim in the ocean. Snorkeling without any snorkels! LOL
31.Go to vegas to visit Linette.
32. Have a fancy dinner with the best ladies.
33.Party with JAB.
34.Finish all my homework. spring 09, check.
35.Meet new people. hello, sid hollister.
36.Try more cheesecake from the Cheesecake factory.
37. Go to the VMAs.
38. Go to another rock concert.
39.Buy a fish.
40. Paint my room.
41.Pull an all-nighter, NOT doing homework.
42. Watch a movie at the drive-inn theatre.
43.Make up a new dance move. haha ACCOMPLISHED. lol but I can't say the name of it. It's too mean =X
44. Pay off my credit card.
45. Have a party bus for my birthday.
46.Pray hard. It's been each and every day recently.
47. Play the piano again.
48.Go on a diet. Does giving up fast food count?
49.Video Chat with more people. Skype me!
50.Have a conversation with a stranger. His name was Morgan and was very interesting.
51.Buy girl scout cookies. Yum. Yum.
52. Visit Pennycook's Deaf & Hard of Hearing class.
53. Memorize the lines to the movie Juno like the rest of my fave movies.
54.Buy He's Just Not That Into You dvd.
55.Make cookies with my sister. Our holiday cookies were hella funny.
56.Donate the clothes I don't wear anymore.
57. Sit by a fireplace and drink hot cocoa.
58.Hit up Melrose again.
59. Go to Magic Mountain and ride X25 times. 4 more times.
60. Make another scrapbook.
61.Finish Katarina's scrapbook, lol. FINALLY!
62.Learn more sign language.
63.Learn to love again. :)
64. Make more blogs. missalegre.blogspot.com!
65. Go to Scandia with my nieces and nephews.
66. Take my cousins to the Jelly Belly Factory.
67.Have more sleepovers in Sac.
68.Redecorate my room.
69. Go to the spa & get a massage/facial.
70. WRITE more letters through traditional mail.
71. Throw surprise parties for people.
72.Buy my sister her first drink as a 21 year old.Oops, she ain't gonna be 21 this year.
73. Go to a Niners football game.
74. Visit Academy of Sciences again.
75. Meet more famous people.
76.Go to a dope ass dance showcase.
77.Watch more of Rudy's plays, if he's in any.
78.Buy David dinner & a drink.Expensive sushi will do.
79. Watch all my friends at their graduations.
80.Get a new camera.
81. Do something great for my parents.
82.Get another leather jacket.
83. Collect more scarves.
84. Get a tattoo.
85.Piercings? hmm.. neh, no more thanks.
86. Participate in another prayer service.
87.Chill at downtown Sac on a warm night.
88.Lay in bed for a whole day by just watching movies.
89.Watch him in action.
90.Visit the cathedral again.
91. Go to the vallejo library.
92.Fill my two stupid cavities. AGHH.
93. Hit up waterworld or some other water park.
94.Have a bandgeek reunion.
95.Go to another band competition at VHS.
96. Go to another Bethel's exhibition.
97.Fix the spa in our backyard. too bad we don't live there anymore!
98. Hit up Hawaii & skydive there.
99.Laugh until I start crying. Disney surprise :)
100.Make more video comments.
101. Learn to fly.
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4. Graduate from Sac State.
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9. Go to Florida and breathe Disneyworld air.
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16. Visit my Goddaughter in Antioch.
17. Get my nails done, 33 more times.
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19. Go to Winchester Mansion at night.
20. Get some pinkberry at SJ with Prophecy kids.
21. Have a reunion with the Cherrywood boys & princesses & other high school friends.
22. Take studio pictures with my 96 ladies.
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24. Sleep at Chanel & Ina's house in the city.
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26. Watch all the Star Wars movies in one weekend.
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28. Let my hair grow out.
29. Go snowboarding.
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32. Have a fancy dinner with the best ladies.
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37. Go to the VMAs.
38. Go to another rock concert.
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40. Paint my room.
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42. Watch a movie at the drive-inn theatre.
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44. Pay off my credit card.
45. Have a party bus for my birthday.
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47. Play the piano again.
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52. Visit Pennycook's Deaf & Hard of Hearing class.
53. Memorize the lines to the movie Juno like the rest of my fave movies.
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57. Sit by a fireplace and drink hot cocoa.
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59. Go to Magic Mountain and ride X2
60. Make another scrapbook.
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64. Make more blogs. missalegre.blogspot.com!
65. Go to Scandia with my nieces and nephews.
66. Take my cousins to the Jelly Belly Factory.
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69. Go to the spa & get a massage/facial.
70. WRITE more letters through traditional mail.
71. Throw surprise parties for people.
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73. Go to a Niners football game.
74. Visit Academy of Sciences again.
75. Meet more famous people.
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79. Watch all my friends at their graduations.
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81. Do something great for my parents.
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83. Collect more scarves.
84. Get a tattoo.
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86. Participate in another prayer service.
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91. Go to the vallejo library.
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93. Hit up waterworld or some other water park.
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96. Go to another Bethel's exhibition.
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98. Hit up Hawaii & skydive there.
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101. Learn to fly.
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